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The Three Wise Words

Khajiit has wares, if you have coin

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Tom, The Developer's Advocate
Apr 26, 2023
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04/26/23

People are complicated. I am not going to pretend that I can magically unravel the complexity with the wave of a wand. What I can offer are three words to help lessen the complicated layers. When given a situation that involves people I ask three questions:

  • Do you feel seen?

  • Do you feel heard?

  • Do you feel understood?

These aren’t the only questions …

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